Saturday, May 31, 2008

HA Diary - Day Two - The Fun Zone

Everybody has to visit their fun zone, now and then - and of course, a Saturday evening is one of the best times.

Mine is called "The Graduate" and it's in easy walking distance (a good thing, since I don't drive) from my home.

All day long, while doing my chores, I worked - in anticipation of visiting my fun zone - to get my right ear in shape (recall: fungus infection) to strut into my fun zone with both ears blazing.
I succeeded! With diligence of cleanliness, and some Tinactin cream, I beat that bully back to a NO SYMPTOM state!

I then engaged my new BTEs on the directional, noise canceling program, about half volume (like yesterday), and made my way down the boulevard.

It wasn't long before I met my first "customer" - a guy by a crossing light, wanted to borrow my cell phone for a quick call. It took about 3 tries for him to get through to me (at first, I thought he wanted money), but eventually I got that he only wanted to borrow some cell time (and he seemed to be willing to pay for it too - but I deferred).

So score about 50% for that one - not too good, but this guy had no clue he needed to work me.

So now, enter The Graduate - a blue collar bar & grill not far from where I live. I'm white collar by profession, but blue collar in personality, and so it fits me pretty well. I'm crazy about their rib-eye steak sandwich, which (if the right guy is on the grill) they do to perfection.

I won't claim "Cheers" here, but everybody behind the bar really does know my name. ;)

Dennis greets me in his usual fashion, and doesn't hesitate after a thumbs up validation to make me my fav (I'll leave that to your imagination).

I ask him - do you see them? (pointing at my ears)

"No!"

So I turn my head to show them.

He asks "So is it better?"

And I tell him the truth. I'll have to work it for awhile - I have a pretty good program set up - very directional - if I look right at you, I can understand you better, but most of the ambient noise is muffled.

Dennis has been one of my best allies (I guess he has good reason - I'm pretty good with tips ) in dealing with my hearing issues. He's been happy to go get my food orders for me when they call it over the intercom - it's always dicey whether I'll recognize.

Everyone goes to their fun zone for a reason.

My reason showed up about an hour after I got there.

Eva.

There she was, acknowledging me. I asked her the same question - see them?

"What?" (showed) "Oh, you got them already!" - Same questions, same answer, of course.

I should tell you a little about Eva. I strongly suspect that Eva is the Matriarch of a BFEA (Black Folks Escort Agency). I have no proof. It's just intuition. ;)

Eva is perpetually busy on the cell phone. Eva has long and winding and passionately crazy conversations on said cell phone (details, I can't know, but emotions, I can read well). Eva comes to the bar, drinks a few drinks, and then really has to go.

So why would Eva be a "reason"?

Eva talks to me. Eva doesn't mind that she has to repeat. Eva feels me out for a thought (repetitively if she must). Some people are good, even if they're not that good. 'Nuff said.

My score (hearing ) with Eva was about 75%. It's better than it was before BTE.

The TV I couldn't hear, but that's not unusual, even before I was HOH.

Eventually, I wound it down, and decided (before I got too stupid) to call it an evening. Back home I came, to write this entry into my HA diary.

Whatever you get from this, I'm glad you got it. :)

Paul S

2 comments:

Kim said...

Friends like Eva are the best!!
:-) I love the non-chalant types who will repeat over and over as if it's such a NORMAL thing.

LifeWrecked said...

Gotta agree wholeheartedly Kim! I have a few folks like that at work too, and it really helps battle the feelings of isolation when you know some people will actually work harder than normal to talk with you. That means they value you enough as a person (co-worker, whatever :) to make the extra effort. Nice feeling. :)

Paul S (aka: LifeWrecked)